Who Should Consider a Collaborative Divorce?
Divorce is a sensitive and personal matter. No single approach is right for every family. Many couples find Collaborative Divorce (also known as Collaborative Law or Collaborative Practice) to be a welcome alternative to the often destructive, costly and uncomfortable aspects of a traditional litigated divorce.
If the value statements listed below are important to you and your spouse, then Collaborative Divorce may be the right process for you:
I want to maintain a respectful tone. I want to prioritize the needs of our children. My needs and those of my spouse require equal consideration, and I will listen objectively. I believe that working creatively and cooperatively solves issues. It is important to reach beyond today's frustration and pain to plan for the future. I can behave ethically toward my spouse. I choose to maintain control of the divorce process with my spouse, and not relegate it to the courts.